Behind Every Good Marine Stands A Beautiful Woman

Marine Corps Ball, Manila 1969

Many of you have asked how my mom is doing. Let me show you:

Despite being completely occupied by her full time job taking care of Dad--changing his bedding, feeding him, flushing his PICC line, dispensing his medications, addressing his needs, comforting

him, etc. etc. etc.--she has also managed to accomplish other amazing things on a day to day basis.

Flushing Dad's PICC line

She has somehow managed to tend her grandchildren, cook delicious feasts, sew beautiful creations, keep an imaculate house and grow a vegetable garden that could put farmers to shame.

Mom's sewing room

She built a waterfall and a stream with her bare hands from rocks and dirt that were discarded on an empty field near their house. She built two club houses for Rhett and Jayden that also serve as Dad's resting area when he makes it outside for fresh air and sunshine. And since she and Dad live in the basement, she has turned their window wells into beautiful gardens as well.

Jayden's outdoor clubhouse

In the last few days that I have been here, I have witnessed her energy first hand. I sleep in the bed next to her and Dad and I don't think she sleeps!

She doesn't go to "sleep" until after midnight. I hear her doing laundry in the middle of the night. She gets up to check Dad's linens. She tests his heart-rate and oxygen levels. She is awake by 5:00 in the morning doing dishes and vaccuming the floor.

I told her that most people her age (69) are going to bed at 6:00pm and taking naps during the day. She said she's like an energetic two-year-old who refuses to take a nap even when she needs it badly.

She doesn't leave Dad's side unless someone else is with him. Even with all these things she manages to do, he is her number one priority. I have also witnessed very tender moments between the two of them. I catch them gazing at each other often and giving each other enough kisses to make me feel like I need to leave them alone :)

My Dad is in good hands. The best hands. She wants all of you to know that she is doing just fine and she gives all the credit for anything and everything she's been able to accomplish thus far to her Heavenly Father who has blessed her with good health and strength and for letting her be His hands in taking care of Dad.