Taking care of Dad at home is more than a full time job. She told me the other day that it is easier for her to watch ten babies than to watch Dad all day. She has to be with him constantly. She can't leave him for even a minute. He's so confused that he can get himself into trouble if left unsupervised.
He doesn't realize how weak he is so he often tries to get up and walk around. He wants nothing more than to take the car and run errands. We have to remind him that he is sick right now and can't do anything like that. He forgets how to do simple tasks like washing his hands or putting on socks.
Mom has been amazing. She is the perfect example of unconditional love. She is always by his side, hugging him, rubbing his back, telling him how handsome he is and how much she loves him.
And through all the trials, she always looks on the bright side and can often be found giggling. When Dad does silly things, she is the first to laugh about it. When she gets frustrated or overwhelmed, she still laughs. And luckily for all of us, her laugh is contagious.
Mom really is a super woman. And I can think of no one better suited to care for Dad than his super sweetheart.
If the weather is decent I'm going to come up for a few hours on Wednesday. You can put me to work. I can help Earl or run errands for you. Susie is definately a super woman. I can't believe the energy she has. Thanks for the updates. Love you guys.
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Wow, I needed to hear that today. What an example she is. I love you guys.
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